Ok here is another extract from A Year of Doing Good:
Saturday, 5 February
I’ve had it in mind for a while to dig up a bunch of snowdrops for
the little old lady who used to live in this house and who moved
down to the village soon after her husband died. He was a keen
gardener and made it his business to spread snowdrops around the
garden, so that at this time of year, snowdrops with their tiny
drooping white bells fill the lawn and the glade between the back
wall and the sheep pasture. We loved him, and I always think of
him when the snowdrops come. I am sure she thinks of him all the
time. Together, my daughter and I found a trowel and we extracted
a small bunch of snowdrops, their heads white and shy, hanging
down as if they were admiring their new, leaf-green shoes.
We drove carefully through the rain with the pot on the floor of
the passenger seat, reaching down every now and then to steady it.
When we got there, the little old lady was preparing dinner. I’ve
dropped in before when she is cooking dinner, and black smoke
will be curling from out beneath the kitchen door, but she would
not dream of telling you. She sits there patiently while you drink
a cup of tea, and when you’ve gone, eats ash. We didn’t go in;
instead we put them by her front door on the porch, out of the
cold north wind, and I told her how I think of him at this time
of year when the snowdrops come.
Good deed no. 36: said, ‘I remember.’